Bad Ego vs Good Ego

Everybody dislikes ego.
                Yes, everybody. Men? They only feel that they have to be ego. Ego is one of the culprits of relationship disasters.  Perhaps, the utmost one. Ego makes the men reluctant to admit mistakes, weaknesses, disabilities, the actual status, and feelings of fear and sadness. These leads to intolerance in relationships, and worsen the whimper of their women. As fight started, ego would likely to grow flare. Women are also having ego, the levels are actually the same with that of men, but it is under control, as women tend to change mind, easily feel sorry for something even when they sulk (at the same time working for consolations from their men), and easy to be persuaded by gifts. 

               However we always neglect the good side of ego. Everything has "good" side, the matter is just the period, and how the good side affect us in the final. For example, drugs are good because they can make us relieve and even feeling high. So, what is the good side, or importance of ego? 


                Ego is a very crucial feeling in sports. As I have mentioned, with ego, we try to deny our weaknesses and disabilities and discard the feelings of fear and sadness. They are really needed on the battlefield. We  need to think that we are winning no matter what. However, to me, we must admit our mistakes for the sake of improvement. Many sportsmen have this quality, however they used to take the wrong part of ego and forgot the important ones. I would like to use Datuk Lee Chong Wei as an example. He did not stay loose in his games before, we might consider what he feels as ego, which drives him to the top ranking. However, at the same time, his necessary ego was incomplete, because there were actually the feelings of fear hiding in the feeling of not-to-lose which made him tense. Until he found the true ego in winning, of which he missed the need to discard the feeling of fear, he started to enjoy his game opposing Lin Dan and gained the straight games victory over Lin Dan in the All England Open. Well, this is only one of the examples that we can see.